For parents, from pregnancy to eighteen

Your child isn’t being difficult. They’re telling you something.

Describe the moment, in English, Hindi or Hinglish. Kahiye gives you the exact words to say, tuned to your child’s age, temperament and what has worked before.

Free to start. No card needed. Private by design.

Say this to Ira

“You wanted to stay longer. Two more slides, then shoes. Hop or march?”

Most parenting apps go quiet after the first birthday. Kahiye stays for all eighteen years.

  1. Pregnancy

    Week by week

    “Is this tiredness normal at week 9?”

  2. Baby

    0–2 years

    “She cries every time I put her down.”

  3. Little ones

    3–6 years

    “He hits his sister when she takes his toys.”

  4. School years

    7–12 years

    “Every evening ends in a homework meltdown.”

  5. Teens

    13–18 years

    “She slammed the door and won’t talk to me.”

Three steps, right in the middle of the moment.

  1. Tell Kahiye what’s happening

    Type it or say it, the way you’d tell a friend. Kahiye already knows your child’s age and temperament.

    Aarav hit his little sister when she took his blocks. He’s still screaming.

    or just speak

  2. Get the words to say

    Not an article. The sentence to say right now, two or three things to do, and the one thing to avoid with this particular child.

    Say this

    “You’re so angry. I won’t let you hit. Let’s stamp our feet together.”

    1. 1Move between them, calmly, before you speak.
    2. 2Give the blocks a home for two minutes.

    Avoid: asking him to say sorry while he’s still flooded.

  3. Tell it what worked

    One tap afterwards. Next time, Kahiye starts from what actually works for your child, not for children in general.

    It worked Partly Didn’t

अम्मा, आरव गुस्से में हो तो पहले उसके पास बैठिए और कहिए: “तुम्हें बहुत गुस्सा आ रहा है। मैं यहीं हूँ।”

9:12 pm ✓✓

Same words, every caregiver.

Children settle when every adult responds the same way. Send the plan to Dadi, Nani, your partner or your nanny on WhatsApp, written warmly for them, in their language.

  • English
  • हिन्दी
  • മലയാളം
  • தமிழ்
  • मराठी
  • বাংলা
  • తెలుగు
  • ಕನ್ನಡ
  • ગુજરાતી

Bedtime stories

Tonight, Aarav is the hero.

A story written for what’s on his mind: a new school, a new sibling, the dark. The hero feels the same worry and finds a small, brave way through. Read it yourself, or let Kahiye read it aloud.

“Aarav put his bravest thing in his pocket, a small red pebble, and walked up to the big blue gate…”

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What’s your child’s temperament type?

Six questions, sixty seconds, free. Find out why they react the way they do, and what tends to work.

  • The Big-Hearted Storm
  • The Quiet Noticer
  • The Bold Firecracker
  • The Steady Planner
  • The Determined Explorer
  • The Social Spark
  • The Easy Breeze
  • The Balanced Builder
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  • A weekly pattern report for each child, ready to show your pediatrician
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Grounded, not guessed

Every answer draws on developmental psychology and attachment research, then on what has worked for your child.

Safety comes first

If something sounds serious, Kahiye says so plainly and puts Childline 1098, Tele-MANAS 14416 and 112 one tap away.

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